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Stone Walls for Miles

lifestyleGabby Jacobsen

I may or may not spend a little time each March brushing up on my Irish history. I'm a busy girl, so I don't have time for complicated words and tons of information. So yes, I get my information from The Complete Idiot's Guide to Irish History and Culture. It's like the perfect Cliff's Notes for facts on Ireland.

Every year I'm surprised at the little tidbits of information found within these hallowed pages. Here is this year's "ah ha" moment for your enjoyment.

I'm sure you're familiar with the thousands of photos showing these beautiful stone walls. Miles and miles of walls that seemingly lead to nowhere! These were, in fact, a public works project developed by the English government to put the famine and eviction victims to work.  In March of 1847, during the height of the Potato Famine, as many as 728,000 were put to work, building stone fences with no purpose and roads that led to nowhere. Putting starving men to work with hard labor in the bitter cold was inhumane, not to mention impractical. Yet they scrambled to do the work in exchange for one meal a day for a family of six! In the end, it only delayed the inevitable and millions of Irish died or were forced to leave on the famine ships within the following years.

Interestingly enough, it has the landmarks of our own New Deal, implemented by Roosevelt following our Great Depression. Thankfully, ours turned out a bit better.

When I do travel to Ireland, I'm going to look upon those walls much like I do our own National Monuments and highways. Touch a stone and shed a tear for the men who labored in troubled times.

 

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Macrame Wall Hanging

DIY, lifestyle, SunDazeGabby JacobsenComment

I have this large white wall in the living of SunDaze that expands nearly the entire length of the home. It also has a stupid window right in the middle of it that looks into the kitchen. Oh, and my husband's huge tv sitting on a long, low white custom shelves we made for our Seattle home about 15 years ago, and have now transferred to our vacation home. Our first thought was to cover it with raw wood,  then realized how much raw wood we'd actually need. Then I thought about hanging old, white washed windows from it. Again, FREE is always better, and those windows are difficult to come by. Then, inspiration struck from the Pottery Barn catalog! A beautiful macrame wall hanging on a brick wall! Well, my walls are white, but a natural piece of 1980's artwork with it's gorgeous texture and ability to create the exact size I need fits the bill. AND, 200m of it was only $16 off Amazon! (The branch I can get from my yard.) 

The string was delivered this week, so now what? I've watched YouTube videos and I believe I found my design. This weekend I'll have my husband follow me out to the yard with a saw and have him help me hang it from a wall so I can start my design. 

I can actually see myself getting into this macrame habit. I can't knit, or crochet, or sew, or paint, or draw ... but I can make knots and braid. Also, rather than sitting around at SunDaze, I can be doing some busy work I enjoy.

I'll post some blogs as I get things started ... 

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Might still be buried in the yard

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I have a love-hate relationship with Irish Soda Bread. First attempt may be still buried in the yard at our old house, potentially being mistaken for a rock. After many attempts to cut it, I dropped it off our back deck in frustration. 

My good friend, Mary Shriane, teaches classes on soda bread annually. Dozens gather to take her class just a few short weeks before the Soda Bread Contest at T.S. McHugh's, happening this weekend. She makes it look so simple, and thankfully, I've gotten better at it! I still have yet to win anything over the past 15 years making bread, but I am also competing against women who were taught at their grandma's knee over a turf fire in the motherland. 

Give it a try!

4 cups flour  (apparently best use GOOD and FRESH bread flour)

1 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon baking soda  (another mess up of mine - make sure it's fresh)

1 teaspoon sugar

2 cups sour milk or buttermilk

Preheat oven to 350, sift dry ingredients into a large bowl. Scooping up handfuls of the mixture, allow it to drop into the bowl. This action aerates the flour. Add enough of the milk to form a soft dough. Working quickly, knead the dough lightly. (Too much kneading will produce the Irish call "hard as the hobs o'hell.) 

Form a round loaf about the size of your fist. Place it on a baking sheet which has been lightly floured and score a cross on the top of the loaf with a knife that has been dipped in flour. Immediately bake the loaf on the top rack of the preheated oven for 30-45 minutes, until the loaf sounds hollow when you rap it with your knuckles. 

These directions are just about as crazy as my mother-in-laws addressing Christmas cards to her old neighbors back home ... 

Mrs. Frances O'Leary
Widow of the Baker O'Leary
2 houses down from Mrs. Donnelly's house with the big stone in the yard
Athlone, Co. Westmeath
Ireland.

Good luck!

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It is what it is.

Alzheimer'sGabby Jacobsen

Today was our follow up with his PCP. I was prepared with questions related to the next steps following the Alzheimer's diagnosis. What I've been finding again and again is "it is what it is." No miracle cures. No miracle drugs. No surgeries. No therapies. 

What there is plenty of is "live your fullest life" "spend time with family" "get your affairs in order". It's difficult to keep him positive - but we had a great talk today about life and death. Everyone dies, it's inevitable, but the question is always what's going to take us. It can be slow, like the 3 years it took my dad's body to give out following the onslaught of cancer treatments in the late 80's. Or it could be quick like my mom's sudden and fatal heart attack 4 years ago. The most important thing now is to live the best life you can. Enjoy is for as long as he can. Enjoy his independence while he still has it - travel if that's what he wants to do.

I'm thankful his 3 children are so close to him and to each other. It may not be geographically convenient, but they are helpful given the distance. They've agreed to do what they can to help us on Ground Zero. 

A bit of a tip for anyone who tries to give him any information with details, please have him write it down and give him specifics, dates, times, etc. He's great with notes, so please assume he won't remember the details 30 seconds later. 

For now, we'll take joy in little things, like a walk at the mall, getting him undershirts for sale at $4/piece and the new Lavender Chai iced drink he bought for me today. 

City of Lights Capsule Launch

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Following our spring Dreams of Provence collection, Chloe + Isabel designers bring some more Oscar-worthy jewels to you in this new small exclusive City of Lights capsule, launching tonight at 7pm PST. To unlock this exclusive Preferred Customer capsule, you must first sign up for the Preferred Customer Rewards program, a FREE program that provides 15% in credit back to you on every order, exclusive collections, free shipping at $100 and much more.

“In this mini-collection, we draw inspiration from Paris, the birthplace of the Age of Enlightenment + the time-honored name, La Ville Lumière. Leaving no shine behind, this dazzling design is destined for jewelry box greatness. Black diamond, clear + jonquil crystal cover this collar in sparkle, while perfectly-placed pearls add a sweet touch to this standout style.”

The capsule contains a statement necklace, 2-row convertible necklace, drop earrings, wrap bracelet, pendant necklace and a beautiful statement ring. The yellow stones really make this collection unique, the pearls make it classic.

Log into your account at www.gabby-candi.com to unlock this gorgeous collection.

 

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Hello ... it's me!

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Rocking the Spoiled Wife Life

My first blog post finds me on a Monday at noon with a cup  of cold green tea that's taken me all morning to drink, listening to my favorite country radio station on Alexa, showered (whew) and using my daughter's laptop computer to test my blogging abilities! 

I'm headed to Papa's house to check in on him, his bills, his pills, laundry and make sure he's eating something other than cereal and ice cream. Groceries and then quickly back home to greet my oldest daughter exiting the Access bus she rides to her college program. Somewhere in there I promised my husband to start gathering the items needed for taxes. Whew ... spoiled wife life indeed. I'm actually not sure how I accomplished all of these things when I was working 8 hours a day. 

Thank goodness for grown kids, one of which can drive, and a gracious and loving husband. 

Off I go to enjoy another beautiful Pacific Northwest day.

Gabs