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Home Body by Joanna Gaines

DIY, lifestyleGabby Jacobsen
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A wonderful source of inspiration

I received this as a birthday gift from my brother (he knows me so well). Sometimes I wake up really early - so one morning I sat down with Joanna and a pack of sticky tabs. I spent some time looking around my house and trying to find those rooms that could use a little more thought.

I’m tackling our entry first. It’s painted the same pale grey as the rest of the house, with a semi circle black table, some greenery, a nondescript flat ceiling light and dark stone floors. We also have to consider our home needs to be handicap friendly. The best characteristic of our entry is the set of beautiful double doors! Lots of gorgeous light comes in during the day - but gets sucked into all the darkness.

So I asked, “What would Joanna do?”

Lighten it up! A large new area rug to go over the dark tile will be a pretty greeting for family and friends. A bonus will be that it may stop some of the gravel that makes it’s way into our home on the wheels of our daughter’s equipment. We’ll use carpet tape to hold it’s edges to the stone so it won’t come up when our daughter drags her toes along the floor.

I’ll be on the lookout for an antique bench. Something that can be used more for decoration than anything else. But lighter with a bit of texture would be lovely.

The Jacobsen men are a tall lot … and unfortunately we purchased our home for it’s layout and lack of stairs, not for its ceiling heights. So I can’t do much in the way of a hanging chandelier. There’s a chance I can find something that will put off a bit more light and make it pretty (without someone bumping their head on it).

My search begins! Carpets can be awfully expensive, so while I save up money for that, I’ll run over to Wenatchee next weekend and see if I can find a table or bench in one of the antique shops that will serve the purpose. I think it’s likely that we could find a different lamp at Target or Home Depot, it’ll just take a little creativity.

One room at a time! Next up - the spare bedroom. (We’ll need a little warmer weather to repaint.)

Would I recommend this book? Absolutely!! It begins with a healthy chapter of ways to identify your design style. I am a mix of Farmhouse-Modern.

Farmhouse

Casual - Organic - Inviting - Simple lines - Distressed - Shiplap - Wide planks - Porches

Casual

Midcentury - Retro - Contemporary - Monochromatic - Minimal - Textured

You’re going to have to take a peek in the book to uncover all the variety of home styles, but my current home is The Humble Abode. The soft grey color palette, decorated trim work, and classic light fixtures throughout this house establish it to a traditional style. Accents, such as distressed wall decora nd ticking-stripe upholstery, also give it a nod to a classic farmhouse style.

My dream house? The Eclectic Farmhouse! The farmhouse is rich with original detail. A modern, Moroccan style is incorporated in the form of jewel-toned textiles and distinct patterns for antique combination of charm and authenticity. And a porch … with a swing … my ultimate dream.

Our lives have always centered around comfort and calm. We want people to be welcome in our home. As of late, you all have followed my transition from a more family-centered color scheme to one of soft greys, clean whites and simplicity. So it only seems natural that I’m enlisting the help of Joanna Gaines!

Get Joanna’s book - You’ll love it!

Who's ready for a little 2019 trends?

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Five Fashion Trends for 2019

Mom always said “Everything comes around again”

2018 and 2019 are taking us back to my high school days. I’m not entirely sure anything that came out of the late 80’s early 90’s were worth repeating - but designers have taken the best and made them not so embarrassing. Let’s take a look how you can join the movement without looking like Boy George or Cyndi Lauper.

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The Fanny Pack

My husband is so excited

Funny story about the FANNY PACK is Dave’s friend Chris vowed never to be seen with Dave with a fanny pack. He LOVES them! We still have a few tucked away in a closet for vacations or big community events. I was completely onboard with Chris - fanny packs were a thing of the past and should be left there - until I saw the one sold by Sseko Designs last year! I fell in love and hunted a tan one down after they sold out. I then gifted a black one to each of my sister-in-laws for their birthdays in December because they’re always on the move with little kids.

Not only is Sseko completely on the mark, but fashion designers like Gucci, Rebecca Minkoff, Marc Jacobs, Kate Spade, JJill are all creating some trendy and updated styles. Sseko is once again bringing back the fanny pack - and if you’re still not sure - ours is convertible. The skinny leather belt can be removed to be worn separately and the bag used as a clutch or wallet in a pinch.

Whatever your style or need - there’s no better time to be “hands free”!

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The perfect flat

Sensible & yummy

While not quite the jellies of the 80’s, but still this is a fashion trend that everyone can do and do without any pain. I’ve been wearing stacked heels and wedges for so many years - I have to watch myself in flats - I tend to trip! But I recently purchased a pair of beautiful navy blue, patent leather, pointed toe flats. Reminiscent of Ducky Dale’s loafers from Pretty in Pink.

If your job doesn’t require dressy attire in the summer - I would suggest you take a look at Sseko’s beautiful leather summer sandals. Full leather uppers and ribbon sandals can be dressed up or down and are convertible, comfortable and beautiful.

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Oversized bags

The carryall that goes from office to beach and back

I don’t remember this being a specific trend, just that an oversized bag made me look skinny. When the kids were little, I always carried an oversized bag and it was generally filled with my wallet, diapers, toys, snacks, a random kid sock, cell phone rolling around the bottom with my keys and my calendar. Let me tell you that I never carried a diaper bag - I have my standards. LOL

I have a beautiful red & white striped Kate Spade bag and a gorgeous navy blue canvas Dooney bag in my closet. The Dooney is my favorite travel bag and Kate comes with me on our boat or the beach. For everyday, I stick to my Sseko leather pieces. Later this month, I’m receiving the latest Spring collection including a marvelous magenta Shopper Tote, the Shopper Crossbody, the goregous Eden backpack, the Bucket Bag in the new slate blue, Market Tote in Plume … oh and the Day Tote in the black & ivory stripe woven design from the partners in Ethiopia. (Geez, now that I see it in print, that seems like a lot of choices!) LOL - I guess I’m going to be ready to take this trend by storm!


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Pastel Florals

Miranda Priestly would be so underwhelmed

So cliche, I know. Florals for spring. However, designers are making sure these florals last way beyond the spring season. Pastels are definitely not my thing - never has been - but I have my ways of being trendy. I even purchased a really pretty pale pink sweater from JJill recently - my mom’s favorite color. Any color can be pulled off with a great pair of jeans to tone down the pastel of it all. And while I try to avoid small floral prints, a beautiful monochromatic or two-tone floral will do wonders for 2019.

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Geometric gems

Can’t get more New Wave then this!

Get ready for crazy colors in bold geometric prints! Look out for Boy George and New Wave boy bands to come out of hiding. My daughter and I found a great sweatshirt in Victoria at the Roots store that is SOOOO 1980’s ski lodge chic. A boxy, short, red number that looked like something out of the movie “Hot Tub Time Machine”. Of COURSE we picked it up and she’s been looking completely trendy all over her college campus.

I may have picked up 4-5 things from the new Sseko spring line with the most beautiful geometric print. It’s called Plume and the background of navy is my jam! Pile on the beautiful green, peach, slate and purple geometric floral-like designs and I’m in love. Sseko also graces us with 2 other floral prints, the Blossom which is a thin black large floral pattern over a cream background with touches of pink and Secret Garden, a beautiful display of green and yellow over a pale peach base. Both are swoon worthy and fit the bill for both floral and geometric trends.

I’d love to hear your worst and best 80’s fashion memory! Let’s hear it and then give 2019 trends a run for the money!

2019 ... what's next?

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Be Organized

Putting it out there makes it real … right?

Do you make resolutions?

As always, I’m in awe of friends who set such ambitious resolutions. Eating healthy, sticking to their budgets, being kinder, finishing school, being a better mother … I’ve spent years trying to chase resolutions. Some work. Some don’t. Instead, I am choosing to set a theme for 2019 …

BE ORGANIZED

It’s a simple step forward, and yes, I am generally organized. There are areas of my house that could be better. There are areas of my life that could be better. Organization doesn’t just stop at a clean home, but in the way you live your life.

I read somewhere that if you want to get into the habit of something, you should write it in your calendar. Here are a few things I’m going to add to my monthly calendar:

  • Clean the refrigerator

  • Deep clean both bathrooms

  • Clean interior of my car

  • Make monthly run to donate items to a non-profit

  • Clean out junk drawer(s)

  • Knock 1 item off our home fix-it list

  • Weekly budget review

My husband and I love our couch time and visiting with friends always way-lay us from getting things done around the house. But if it’s on the calendar, perhaps it will help us better plan our week. I’m hoping the above list doesn’t automatically make you think “do these people ever clean”? I tend to tackle light cleaning on a weekly basis, but hate the chemicals and down-and-dirty deep cleaning that is often needed every few months. I hoping by adding it to my monthly list, it will avoid having to call out the big guns and I can feel better about the space we call home.

So when you get ready to set your resolutions for 2019, be kind to yourself. Set attainable goals. Build in check points throughout the year and definitely break it down in steps. Don’t get discouraged either, if you get off track, you don’t have to wait until January 2020 to start over, everyone deserves a fresh start any time during the year.

Happy New Year to all my lovely friends and family!

2018 What a ride!

Chloe + Isabel, DIY, lifestyle, Sseko, SunDazeGabby Jacobsen
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Goodbye 2018

It’s been memorable!

It’s coming up on a year ago last February that I started this Blog. My original idea was to combine my family news, Chloe + Isabel sales and our new SunDaze Airbnb rental all in one social media space. It can be exhausting tagging multiple social media outlets as well as getting a newsletter together every week.

A few life changes took my blogging on a weird tangent. Sadly, the business that had saved me from my depression following mom’s death had taken a bit of a turn. The company had been sold by the founder and was following a more traditional “team building” business development. Gone were the days when I could be supported to just run my own business and gain recognition and incentives within the company. I still am in LOVE with the designs and quality, but part of my drive is in hitting goals and attending conventions with the wonderful friends I’d met. So many of whom left the company and left me brokenhearted.

In walked Sseko with it’s gorgeous leather designs and ribbon sandals! The Sseko story is one of a beautiful sisterhood of support here in the US and worldwide. Unfortunately, these big ticket items weren’t a huge hit for my original 300+ customer base.

Despite these negative blips, 2018 was really quite remarkable.

Dave was extremely busy this year with adding new Teamsters to his Tank Haul roster, negotiating first contracts, adding more groups to his plate, renewing old contracts, contemplating strikes … but this also took any big vacation off the table. We just couldn’t come up with a week of uninterrupted work for him. So, the girls and I spent much of our summer east of the mountains at SunDaze. I traveled over nearly weekly, running our Airbnb business and enjoying the summer weather and time with friends. It was the first summer of “no work” and just enjoying our new place. Many of the kids’ friends joined us and filled the bunkhouse with happy sounds. Card games in the carport, movie nights, floating on the river, 6 people in the golf cart, and coming up with new rules like “What happens at CB stays at CB.”

We had some great guests and the Airbnb thing was a big success! Great reviews from our guests and I’ve had about a dozen requests already for next summer. We earned enough to pay for 6 months of our HOA dues - a big relief since my new Golf Wagon was developing a serious relationship with the mountain pass and long drives back and forth from Seattle.

Overall, 2018 was one for the Jacobsen record books:

  • 1 kid graduating college

  • 1 kid graduating high school (and no private school tuition)

  • 1st summer of Airbnb

  • A little forgiveness

  • Lovely new friend groups

  • Leading a healthier life

  • Living my best life in cut offs and Berkenstocks!

  • New job

  • Following the start of my baby’s career in film production

  • Sending a kid away to college

  • Big steps and accolads for my husband in the Teamster union

  • Sseko summit in Portland

  • Trip with my husband to Vegas for Teamster convention

  • OMG - finally putting up railings on the back deck and completing BBQ area

I am forever greatful for my wonderful husband for allowing me time at home with my girls. It was such a joy getting the chance to really be there for my daughter’s last year at our alma mater and enjoying all the “lasts” that she was going through. Getting time to spend with my older daughter as we working on healthy habits and making plans for when it will be just the 3 of us at home again in the fall. Living my best life in casual clothes and optional shower times is really where I lived the dream. My makeup optional, growing out my hair and yes, even braless days are what I look forward to in my retirement years.

So on this, the last day of 2018, the Jacobsens say goodbye to a year of great new beginnings and get ready to set goals for 2019!

More to come soon!!

Hogwarts or Bus

lifestyle, DIYGabby Jacobsen
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Accio Christmas

Because why not?

Last December my husband was sitting with me on the couch and suddenly said “Did you finish decorating for Christmas?” to which I replied “Yes, of course!” I looked around and realized that my new “clean look” Christmas decor wasn’t much and blended right into my already grey/white/beige color scheme. I didn’t have a spot or red or green anywhere but on the tree. Even my new throw pillow were grey plaid.

Understandably, he grew up on a home where every surface was covered with Christmas. Every room had something playing Christmas music when you walked by or pushed a button and the Christmas tree took up the entire room. I realized I had to be somewhere in the middle … but the past 3 years had been spent reducing our overall Christmas decor out of the attic … and I dread purchasing any more Christmas decor. I am now down to 4 Christmas boxes and a tree. (In fact, I send the boxes back up into the attic without even everything being used.)

Part of the problem was losing my mom 5 years ago December 21st. It’s a difficult time of year to lose a parent, but then my mother-in-law also died 6 months later, leaving us without much Christmas spirit.

So, this year, my oldest daughter and I came up with a solution to our humbug Christmas spirit. We would celebrate Christmas this year with a Harry Potter theme! We started combing Pinterest for ideas and ways we could creatively (and inexpensively) turn our home into Hogwarts at Christmas, including Christmas dinner.

We made banners, used her many Harry Potter pieces, created a Quiddich field in the front yard and much more. When Christmas came, we copied the Three Broomsticks family style dinner for our small gathering. We had a great time as a family finding the spirit again and although it’s not likely we will do another Harry Potter theme (because you know … been there done that) I think we’ll make a bigger effort in the future to brighten up our home for the holidays and understand that it helps to clear away the unhappy memories and bring the spirit of Christmas back into our lives again.

Much love to all of you who have lost your childhood Christmas excitement - and I would encourage you to pick up your wand and “Accio Christmas” to find it again.

Happy .. Winter!

lifestyleGabby Jacobsen
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Happy … Winter!

Oh, that’s where I left off.

Goodness sakes! Has it really been since August that I’ve written to ya’ll? It’s been an exciting adventure for my family as the summer ended with some big weekends at our SunDaze, weddings, visitors, and packing our youngest off to her university mid-September. Somewhere in all of that, I began interviewing for full-time jobs and once again putting myself in the hands of the spirit to guide my life.

When I last left you, we had our dining room acting as “ground zero” for all of my daughter’s college equipment. She was living on borrowed time at home so everything she was bringing, save some clothes and toiletries, were packed using my superior organizational skills, waiting for moving day. She moved over 4 days before most of her freshman peers in order to attend a Leadership camp experience which would afford her an additional 5 credits and a great source for meeting new friends.

When moving day arrived, I was ready to get her moved in with the help of my husband, my older daughter and the new college student. We only had 4 hours to get everything in and organized before she had to catch the bus back out of town. We were done in 2 … I had all the essentials ready to go, including packed lunch so we didn’t have to run out during our short time together. Pictures were hung, clothes put away, bedding situated, bathroom and desk set up and all her electronics ready to go!  Since her 2 roommates weren’t moving for several days, we were able to take our time and enjoy a little lunch before taking pictures and heading back out of town.  No tears, even now! She’s so good and settled into college life. She has dozens of friends and seems to meet more every week. She loves her classes, clubs and new experiences. Do I miss having her at home … sure! But we talk daily, send funny Snapchats all the time, and she still comes to me for advice and a little Mom-love. Over the next 2 months, I drove over to SunDaze every few weeks, stopping by her dorm to bring her to lunch or something from home. I set up a monthly PuraVita bracelet shipment and kept her snack supplies coming through Amazon. As I write this, she’s a week away from Winter quarter and I couldn’t be more excited as her new goals start coming into play.

Starting in late September I began receiving invitations to interview for new positions. I had put my resume out on Indeed.com and applied for really random professional jobs at various companies in the PNW. After receiving a few offers, I settled on taking an Executive Position at one of our regional hospitals. Yes, I know, healthcare right? What do I know about healthcare? Little to nothing, but that’s not what I am being asked to do. I work in hospital administration, for the Chief Operating Officer no less, so basically doing what I was doing for my judge without the hassle of jurors, attorneys, courtrooms, courthouses, criminals, pro se litigants and commuting. I manage his calendar, keep track of expenses, event planning, capital expenses and anything else needing to be done around the office. I make sure he’s organized so he can do what he does best. To date, I’ve passed my 60 day review and haven’t been fired, so I guess I’m doing something right.

I enjoy working in the community where I was raised and I feel like I’ve settled into the position. While I still have lots to learn about the hospital (including finding my way around), I’m satisfied that I found something meaningful and educational. PLUS, it makes me a little more responsible about my own healthcare. It’s difficult to put off those blood tests your PCP has been trying to get you to do when your boss walks you down to the lab. ROFL

Cheers to the holidays and I promise to try to be more active in my posts! But until you hear from me again, have a wonderful new start to your 2019!

Well hello again ...

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Well hello again

If you thought the beginning of the summer was busy ...

Wow, unbelievable past month! I kept thinking “if I could just get to August, things will slow down.” I spoke toooooo soon. Let me explain why I haven’t written.

Let’s start with Diana’s last minute trip to Hawaii with a friend’s family, which, as it turned out, was the last weekend away from Crescent Bar. Since then, we’ve spent pretty much every weekend there! Or at least 3 days a week there during August. (And guess what? We’re going back this weekend to make it a completely full month of travel!)

A few very special events took place that have caused me to neglect my blogging. We went directly from my sister-in-law and her kids visiting Seattle from Georgia which included a trip to Crescent Bar to show them our new oasis, into a weekend of Airbnb readiness. Spent a day with some Yaya friends in Sunland during my mid-week return to get the Airbnb ready for the next client and then returned in time for Diana’s homecoming from Hawaii. Home for a few days and I think we did a few days of Seafair Hydro craziness and then attended a beautiful country wedding in Thorp (yes, people actually live around the Thorp Fruit Stand LOL). Came home that evening and directly into an outdoor concert and a full week of showing Minnesota relatives around Seattle for 3 days and then to CB and Leavenworth to show them a bit of the East side of the state. Whew ... 22nd anniversary with family over and bam! A week full of appointments and court coverage in Seattle. Leaving tonight to return to CB and have some fun at the Ellensburg Rodeo! 

Diana has been working very long days in the Seattle movie industry and I’m happy to report that she’s LOVING it! So exciting to see her take on this level of maturity and responsibility. She’s completed 3 film projects over the course of the summer, working all but the week in Hawaii at least 3-4 days per week, for sometimes longer than 12 hours per day. She’s rocking it and reports coming in say she’s hardworking, dependable and a joy to work with. Currently she’s atop Mount Rainier assisting a commercial film crew. Only 11 days left before we move her off to college in Eastern Washington ... 

With the coming changes, I thought I’d try my hand at employment again. I still LOVE my direct sales and Sseko means more to me than ever before with my Executive Fellow promotion. But now that the kids are off REALLY doing their own things, it’s time for me to start keeping myself busy to avoid the fact that one of my best friends is moving away. 

I expect my posts to become a bit more frequent in the coming weeks (well ... after 9/10) as life settles in. I’ll need an outlet for this new phase of my life - so stay tuned and I’ll try to keep myself together. =)